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Eye Movement Desensitisation and Re-Processing (EMDR)

 

What Is EMDR?

EMDR is a structured, evidence-based therapy designed to help the brain process and integrate distressing or traumatic memories so they no longer carry the same emotional charge.​It uses bilateral stimulation — a gentle left–right rhythm through guided eye movements or tapping — to assist the processing of experiences that may feel unresolved or “stuck.”

EMDR follows a clear, phased approach. We begin by establishing safety and internal resources, and move toward memory processing only when you feel ready and sufficiently supported.

Who EMDR Can Help

EMDR may be helpful for:

• Single-incident trauma and PTSD
• Developmental or complex trauma (CPTSD)
• Childhood neglect or abuse
• Anxiety and panic
• Intrusive memories or recurring thoughts
• Persistent negative self-beliefs
• Depression linked to unresolved experiences

What Happens in a Session?

EMDR begins with a careful assessment and preparation phase. Together, we:

• Explore your history and current concerns
• Identify patterns and triggering experiences
• Develop skills to manage emotional activation safely

Only when this foundation feels steady do we begin working directly with specific memories.

Processing takes place in short, structured sets using bilateral stimulation — a gentle left–right rhythm created through guided eye movements, tapping, or alternating sounds. This rhythmic stimulation helps the brain process memories in a new way.

As memories are reprocessed, they typically lose their emotional intensity and become easier to recall without overwhelm.

Possible Benefits

You may experience:

• Reduced emotional intensity when recalling difficult memories
• Fewer intrusive thoughts or flashbacks
• Improved mood and sleep
• Greater steadiness in previously triggering situations
• A shift in long-held negative beliefs about yourself

 

FAQ

How many sessions are needed?

EMDR is a structured, 8 phased therapy rather than a single technique. Before de-sensitisation begins, time is devoted to preparation — understanding your history, identifying treatment targets, and developing the internal resources needed to approach difficult material safely.

​The number of sessions varies depending on your capacity to self-regulate, degree of trauma history and awareness of the central issues at hand. 
Single-incident or recent trauma may respond in fewer sessions, while complex or long-standing difficulties typically require a longer course of therapy. The pace is always guided by what feels manageable and appropriate for you.

What does EMDR feel like?

EMDR can feel unfamiliar at first, as your brain begins processing memories in a different way.

During processing, thoughts, images or emotions may arise and shift. Rather than repeatedly reliving an event, many people notice that their perspective begins to change. Memories that once felt vivid and charged often become more distant, less emotionally intense, and easier to hold. At the same time, the negative beliefs that may have formed around the experience — such as “I’m not safe” or “It was my fault” — can begin to shift.

Over time, the experience becomes something you can remember without reliving.

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Based in Simon’s Town, I work with clients across the Deep South, including Glencairn, Fish Hoek, Noordhoek, Kommetjie, Kalk Bay and Scarborough, as well as online.

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